Cheetah Print is TOO SEXY?

Apr 15, 2015

Shona S.

... You, and only you, decide what you wear. Your boyfriend does not. I have a boyfriend and not once has he ever told me what I can and cannot wear. He can give advice but not stop you in your trucks and say what you wearing is associated with a slut? You should wear what you feel confident in. Plus, I think your decision to add a white blazer adds class anyway. :)

Apr 15, 2015

Rachel M.

The way you explained the outfit you wore doesn't sound so revealing. You put a blazer over it to make you comfortable which is what I would've done. I think it all depends on your preference whether cheetah print is out of style or not if you like it, wear it. And your boyfriend shouldn't have a say in what you wear he's not the one wearing the outfit and definitely shouldn't be telling you it's a slutty outfit. If my boyfriend said the same thing I would wear it regardless cause it made ME feel good. If something simple like wearing an outfit you thought was cute on you made you feel good then that's all that matters Hun. Work that cheetah skirt and crop top girl no one should stop you!

Apr 15, 2015

Riff W.

It's not too revealing at all. Your boyfriend could've just said he didn't like it. Honestly, you should seriously talk to him about that. Nothing gives him the right to call you that or make you feel that way. It's a lovely outfit and I'm sure you looked gorgeous in it. Don't let anyone tell you what to wear hon

Apr 15, 2015

Stephanie G.

Under no circumstances is it okay for your bf to call you or say you look like the s word. Not okay. And that outfit is cute.

Apr 15, 2015

Gisell G.

Wow. Girl, he is NOT your dad. He has no right what so ever to tell you what's okay to wear & not. Also, an outfit doesn't make you a slut.
Idk if this is just me but I don't think you should be with a boy who makes you feel the opposite of confident, leave his little immature ass & find yourself a man (I don't know how old you are... So a mature person,) someone who will make you feel like you're the most beautiful girl around someone who will remind you of how good you look, just like you feel. You already had a dad, you don't need another one

Apr 15, 2015

Livi H.

He sounds controlling and sounds like he doesn't respect you. Sounds like he cares more about how he feels than to consider what he says to you. He could've voiced his opinion respectfully without calling you any names. I'm sorry but I don't really care about what the problem is but he needs to slap his own face or something is I don't know. That outfit looks cute and I applaud you for putting on a blazer to be more covered up and he still had something to say? please. Would he be happier if your skirt was pooh bear print?

Apr 15, 2015

Kattya M.

The print means nothing maybe the outfit felt tiny and more appropriate for clubbing BUT he does ring some alarms... My boyfriend is like that, it is just terrible that's just the tip of the iceberg, everything that's behind it is what's really messed up. I hope you don't have to much time with him because this type of people are the worst, really RUN FOR YOUR LIFE, I mean it. That's the best advice I can give you just be cold and get rid of him and never look back. You might not thank me but seriously you will regret it later on if you keep this going...

Apr 15, 2015

EsotericOdium Q.

I'm going against everyone ,but if he said that -being that he'd know the mindset of other men , he probably knows what he's saying. His wording should be better, however.

Apr 15, 2015

EsotericOdium Q.

Cheetah print is not too sexy. It's a print...it may just be your body?-?

Apr 15, 2015

Marissa L.

Wear whatever the hell you want. boys have no place telling you what to wear, even your boyfriend. I had one who said I wore too much makeup and hated red lipstick on me. now red lips and practically cake face are my staple! seriously though, slut shaming in general is horrible, added to the fact its your boyfriend makes it double bad. you should talk to him about this, because it strikes me as manipulative, and somewhat abusive. (also the outfit sounds adorable)

Apr 15, 2015

Jasmin B.

Like the other ladies said there is no excuse for a person describing you in that way. I'm sorry but I disagree with (I believe it was Shanae) telling someone they're dressed like a slut and that they are a slut doesn't make much of a difference to me. It's disrespectful no matter what and I don't know anything about you or your relationship but it seems as though you might want to have a talk with your boyfriend about what's appropriate when expressing his feelings. As for your outfit, nothing your describing sounds too revealing and if you're comfortable in your outfit that is what's most important! (:

Apr 15, 2015

Ari M.

Honestly that sort of comment is a sign of trying to control you and can escalate into abuse
I talk from experience
He has no right to tell you how to dress especially when you're not going anywhere fancy where your outfit would be inappropriate to wear
Thankfully found a better man on my end so you should either talk to him about what he said or find a new man

Apr 15, 2015

Amy H.

Oh gosh just to confirm I meant it WASNT right. I feel really awkward now haha just confirming so no one thinks bad of me now.

Apr 15, 2015

Charlotte B.

Haha don't worry amy I think it was obviously an error

Apr 15, 2015

Hannah K.

Cor my boyfriend would have blue balls if he ever said anything like that to me. Yes, whilst he has a right to point out anything that he doesn't think is good, that comment was really unneeded. And they wonder why us girls have self-esteem issues! I literally cannot get over the fact that he made that comment to you, it's so out of line! Cheetah print is no different to any other print on clothing, it's the types of clothing it's used on. I mean you can get cheetah print maxi skirts and floral booty shorts, and floral pattern is NEVER considered slutty.
The fact that he's sexualised your body is disgusting, he has no right to do that. Eurgh, I'm so disgusted.

^ Excuse the feminist rant :)

Apr 16, 2015

Nathalie H.

I don't think Cheetah outfit is "too sexual", on the opposite I always associated with old ladies because in my childhood a lot of "old ladies" wore cheetah. But cheetah print can be very beautiful and some dressed and skirt are very pretty with cheetah print. I think it all depends on the skirt. The rule is, if you are showing your legs then cover the top and vise versa. However, I personally wouldn't wear something my bf considers "slutty", so try to work around that skirt. Maybe you could wear it with black tights?

Apr 16, 2015

Nathalie H.

But it is very rude of your boyfriend to call you a slut. As your boyfriend he has a right to his own opinion and he could simply say that he finds your skirt inappropriate. But he shouldn't call you a slut. It is very rude and disrespectful.

Apr 16, 2015

Nathalie H.

Personally, if my boyfriend found something that I wear inappropriate, I would change that outfit because I respect him, but god forbid he calls me a slut 😈 he would be buried six feet under the ground 😇