Getting Extremely Sick And Tired!!

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Jan 12, 2014

Beauty G.

Ok ladies I am venting I have kept this to myself entirely to long. Like I have said once before I am an extremely positive person but, why does it seem as though this whole thing is a competition to see who can provide the best answers or who can put their lipstick on the best. I see and read so much caddy behavior and it is extremely annoying IM just about sick of it. I love this site but, if I go out IM going with a bang and I won't be nice about it either because it's not fair to the ladies on here to have to deal with that kind of *BS* on a freaking beauty site that provides learning tools and experience for growth.

Michele S.

Jan 12, 2014

Michele S.

It always seems to be one. Life too =/

Jan 12, 2014

Logged O.

It's okay! I know how you fill! And it's lovely that you opened up! However, maybe try, & I'm saying TRY, to look at it differently? Such as... The best answer, maybe look at that as people trying their best to help some out! And I lovethe fact that your “going out with a bang!"

I really don't wana sound rude! So plez take this kindly! Thankx

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Jan 12, 2014

Beauty G.

That's the thing IM not on here that often but when I am this is what I see I can't speak for anyone else this is the reason I only post my looks but also I am trying to network as well.

Jan 12, 2014

Karen B.

Amen...

Jan 12, 2014

Beauty G.

And it's just annoying to have to see it.

Jan 12, 2014

Beauty G.

I get what you are saying @ Amber C. but I am not speaking about ladies who do that IM talking about ladies who do it in a caddy manor.

Jan 12, 2014

Shannon B.

I never see it as a competition. Yes some answers are better than others but I don't see any competition over it.
Yes something's I will admit are annoying. Like questions that aren't even beauty related getting answered over anything else. When I have a serious beauty question I never get a answer. I never get an answer for most my post. There are beauty questions though. I refuse to answer anything beside beauty questions.

Jan 12, 2014

Shannon B.

I still have questions not answered that I gave up on.

Jan 12, 2014

Beauty G.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion this Is mine I can't speak on what anyone else feel a but these are my feelings I have been on here for a little while maybe about 5 or 6 months and I know what I have seen and experienced and it's just getting old is all IM saying

Jan 12, 2014

Mio S.

Yeah seriously. I love coming on here and just seeing people's passion for makeup and seeing peoples looks but people are just extremely catty on here. It's like they have to know more than you, it's hard to even have a conversation on here

Jan 12, 2014

Tonita C.

I'm just returning to BL after a loooonnnng hiatus because of the same thing.

Jan 12, 2014

CPT- Lili R.

I'm at the same boat as shannon but I do see your point beauty I just hope I'm not one of the ones your talking about cuz I do answer a lot of questions but not for competition or none of that and I try not to come out in a bitch way and I'm not saying this cuz the shoe fit or none of that its just that people see things in a different way, beauty if you have me in mind of some of the people you are talking about please let me know so I can do something about it.

Jan 12, 2014

CPT- Lili R.

Kiki I did answer your post I think I was the first one.

Jan 12, 2014

Beauty G.

IM sure glad you ladies understand where I'm coming from with this. @kiki M.I.A. I can't find it what does it say.

Jan 12, 2014

Shelley W.

I personally don't let it get under my skin. If I see read something that is coming off disrespectful or snide towards another person I speak up and move on. I had to defend Traci on a thread and I'll do it for anyone else but I don't let it keep me up at night in frustration. And as far as the non beauty stuff...if I'm not in the mood I don't bother with looking at the post.

Michele S.

Jan 12, 2014

Michele S.

I've noticed you haven't been posting as much beauty.. Kiki I'll go look

Jan 12, 2014

Beauty G.

Sorry about my auto- correct.

Michele S.

Jan 12, 2014

Michele S.

What's the post called

Jan 12, 2014

Tonita C.

Cosign w Shelley...I handle it the same way.

Jan 12, 2014

Shelley W.

@kiki...your post isn't showing up on my end...

Jan 12, 2014

Mio S.

@kiki I can't find yours , what's the post name?

Jan 12, 2014

Kenzie L.

What I don't like is how someone will post a look and ask for comments but only get like 4 responses. but then there's those few that will post a look and get 30+ responses. its like how many ways can you say good job! after a post gets so many responses I don't even bother because I'm pretty sure anything that needed to be said was said.

Jan 12, 2014

Brittany H.

I don't necessarily see it as a contest. I love to get all kinds of different opinions on posts just to have different options of things to try. But I have noticed some cattiness with comments that are unnecessary. I feel like if you don't have something nice or helpful to add there is no need to comment. And if people do it on my post I try to just ignore it. It is also really frustrating when I have a real question and get no answers or barely any :/

Jan 12, 2014

Beauty G.

Lol @Shelley I damn sure don't allow it to keep me up I have to get my beauty sleep IM not allowing anyone to get between me and that but after a while like I said it just bothers me because I feel depending on how you look at it. It's kind of a form of bullying and I don't like that because I was bullied when I was a child and it's a terrible feeling. @Michele S. now you know why.

Beauty G.

Wesley Chapel FL