I need some opinions 😞😔😣😓

Jun 15, 2014

Lindsay K.

Oh Erin I'm so sorry!! Just because you like to look nice doesn't mean they have the right to be that way!! And in no way are you asking for it! That's crazy! Look at it this way: be with her and be with someone you care about and not get to do something you obviously love (look nice. Who doesn't like to look nice?) or don't be with someone who adds to the negativity of the situation. That's just my opinion though :)

Jun 15, 2014

Jennifer G.

To be honest I don't feel you are in the wrong at all. You cannot help what other people say to you. You should be able to wear whatever you want makeup/clothes wise, and it should be okay. I think she needs to understand that. I mean even if your in sweatpants and no makeup, there's still people who would hit on you anyways, so then you'll be "wrong" for wearing that. So my advice is to kinda really have a big heart to heart with your girl and have her understand that. I hope your problem gets solved! 😬

Jun 15, 2014

Roz X.

I agree with Renay. Speaking from past experience, this is a form of abuse. You're walking on eggshells...modifying who you are and your behavior to avoid confrontation...feeling guilty as if you are bringing this on...being accused and put in a position to justify and defend your choices and actions...stressing and worrying about things beyond your control that serve as temper triggers...all signs of manipulation. This is far beyond control. It's a matter of incredible insecurity on her part and what feels to me like a desire to fuel guilt within you...even at the cost of sorrow. This is supposed to be someone who loves you? Love doesn't work that way, Sweetie. I know you care for her, but trust me, one day you will look back and wonder why you put up with any of this to begin with.

I'm so very sorry. I hope you find the strength to change the dynamics of this relationship or move on to find joy elsewhere. *hug*

Jun 15, 2014

Roz X.

I truly wish the best to both of you lovely ladies. Keep calm, your head high and approach this with the attitude that you have the opportunity to bring positive change into your relationship. Speak from the heart and without fear. A reasonable, loving partner wouldn't want to bring sorrow or pain upon you and so perhaps a deep discussion in conjunction with seeing changes will put you both on a path to brighter days...together. But know that if and when you voice your concerns, you may not receive the support or respectful, sincere response you want and deserve. In that instance, you have some serious thinking to do. Life is so very short...so make yours the very best it can be. <3.

Jun 15, 2014

Artistic B.

Omgoodness lovely. I'm so sorry your going through this with your girl. My girl is very very jealous as well and we do have talks about jealousy and figuring out what is the best solution...it's all about talking things out. It's not right at all for her to take her frustrations out on you for people's responses. She has to get use to the fact that she has an attractive woman and be proud about it. You or her can't control what people say. Just have to ignore those arrogant men and do you. You two need to communicate for sure. And if she doesn't understand where your coming from then there needs to be a change ;)

Jun 15, 2014

Artistic B.

Be firm with her and tell her lovely.

Jun 15, 2014

Artistic B.

Don't change nothing when it comes to wearing makeup or your outfit. It is always nice for your girl to give her opinion. But her opinion shouldn't be based on what other people think. They are irrelevant. Don't feel bad. She needs to just step back and take a look at how she's effecting you.

Jun 15, 2014

Kat A.

Maybe show her this post as well? that way she can see other people's perspective. but keep your head up. you're gorgeous & she should be proud to show you off. it's not right for her to be controlling like that. especially because you're not out trying to get with other people. you're trying to look good because you're going out with your woman & that's how you feel comfortable. maybe start the conversation with how much you love & respect her. I know how it is being with someone who always thinks they're right. it gets frustrating, but he usually responds better when I "praise" him first & then confront the issue. I hope things get better for you, love. if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm always here. I'll give you my number or whatever if you need it :)

Jun 15, 2014

Sara L.

She's jealous. AND that is so disrespectful and wrong to say that the crude actions of some guys on the street are in any way your fault no matter what you're wearing!! stay strong girl, you are beautiful and should be allowed to showcase that beauty however you feel comfortable no matter what anybody says!!

Jun 15, 2014

Kira-louise S.

Speak to her darling! She may not listen the first time but try and work things out. Your not in the wrong at all! If you wanna look nice go for it! It's your body you can do what you like and wear what you like 😊