what do you do to get over hate

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Sep 15, 2011

Mindy N.

Hey - you know you've made it when you got haters, right? Shrug it off. Anyone who is bullying you online is immature and on top of that, not worth your time or energy. Just know that you are great at what you are doing and these people are just wasting their time and energy to make you feel bad. Stay strong my beauty friend, you have a whole beauty community that is backing you up :)

Art invokes emotions of all ranges. In short, this John character just said you're a work of art (:

Since when was a work of art a bad thing? =P

Sep 15, 2011

Heather H.

Honestly, you have to keep reminding yourself of who you really are, not who they say you are. I had a horrible job where people lashed out at me often, it would really affect me. I always had to stop and tell myself they're lashing out because of their situation, not because of who I am or anything I am doing.

Tell yourself all the good things about yourself and also remind yourself that these people are not healthy happy people if they have to make themselves feel better by trying to belittle others. Bullies have insecurity issues and they have probably been belittled themselves.

Honey …hate is here to stay. Don’t let it affect you. I know how you feel…..today a certain person kept staring at me because I looked good. When I am not as glamoured up they are super nice. It is sad to say. It does hurt inside but how about you do a spoof video.. Do your makeup all jacked up and smile throughout the video..dedicate it to your haters. Have fun with it.

Sep 15, 2011

Steff J.

Love. :)

laugh and find away to piss them off next!

Sep 15, 2011

Shelly T.

You know, for a supposed MAN, this John person is acting, very much, like a LITTLE BOY.

;)

Seriously, though, block the SOB, if you can.

I would say that hate is hard to get over. But what is even harder is accepting love! I think we all sometimes forget (too easily) that the people who appreciate us matter more than those who are just looking to put everyone down. Those are the people who do not have love and do not appreciate them. They take it out on everyone else! Don't let those people get you down! You are talented and confident and that is something envied by many! Keep your head above the haters and immersed in those who love you! :)

Sep 15, 2011

Nikki B.

"Hold your own, Know your name, & Go your own way" (Jason Mraz)

Andrew, I hope this helps with your perspective--I think your videos are great! I am new to YT and am not known enough (yet!) to get hate, so I really do think that you are almost doing better when you get to the point where you get haters. Think about it, this guy is still watching! And if he is still watching it's for a reason...you! I love it when gurus come back with nice things to their haters, like saying "Thanks so much for watching and commenting!" hahaha it's not exactly the response they are after, huh?

Sep 16, 2011

Angela W.

Don't be upset about what someone says about your videos... as long as you like making them and feel good about trying, that's what really matters. That guy isn't going to factor into your life in any real capacity, so just forget about him! But if it's really bothering you then maybe you should respond.

I try to never let people get under my skin... but if they hurt my feelings or make me angry, I tell them (as calmly and reasonably as I can). If they make fun of you for opening up and being honest then they're seriously corrupt in the soul department. Just take the high road and you'll always win!

Sep 16, 2011

Jackie T.

Love them from a distance.