Opinions on wedges to school?

Sep 4, 2014

Marissa F.

I'm sure you will hear this a lot, but don't worry about what others will think after high school (you're in high school right? Lol) you probably won't see most of those people ever again.
Wear them with confidence, they are really cute :)

Sep 4, 2014

Nerissa R.

These shoes are so pretty :) their not ridiculously high like the way some other girls would wear them when I was in high school lol. & yes like ^^^Diana said Confidence is the key :) I say wear them.

Sep 4, 2014

Brittany F.

Confidence is exactly my issue 😣 what I'm scared of is my anxiety getting worked up over it and ending up having apanic attack over something so small, but maybe I should give it a try😁

Sep 4, 2014

Nerissa R.

Lol I know how you feel I'm the same way. but your a beautiful girl I'm sure people will compliment you??

Sep 4, 2014

Zo E.

Yes yes yes do it! they look so good

Sep 4, 2014

Faith F.

OMG I love them! Go for it!

Sep 4, 2014

Cady V.

Omg I absolutely love them! I wish I had a pair :) if they go perfectly with your outfit you should wear them. don't care about what other people think in high school, it won't matter 5 years from now :) no one's going to make fun of you and if girls do judge you that just means they're insecure with their own selves.

Sep 4, 2014

Kendra H.

Honestly, I have a huge confidence issue and I have my whole life so I know how hard this must be for you. Maybe don't start with these wedges. Maybe start with more casual shoes with a little bit of height and then gradually build up to these high wedges.

Or; wear then and appear confident. People who bully pick up on a lack of confidence. Even if you aren't completely confident Inside; walk tall, speak without any hint of nerves in your voice, and smile! People are always less likely to target someone that appears genuinely happy and with no fears.

Also if you're having panic attacks over things so small I would recommend stopping in to see a counselor or therapist; whether that's at school or after at another office. I'm just finishing completing my Psychology degree and a certification; what you are feeling isn't healthy and your anxiety seems to have begun to control your life a little bit. I'd just recommend going and talking to someone about all of this. I'm in no way saying there's anything wrong with you! You seem to be a very intelligent girl and you are extremely beautiful; but sometimes we all need to talk to someone!

Sep 4, 2014

Laura V.

Definitely wear them! They are so cute and you are gorgeous!

Sep 4, 2014

Tori S.

People wear them at my school all the time! Wear them if you want to!

Sep 4, 2014

Brittany F.

They're not as high as they look haha, and I don't know I'm not worried about getting bullied that's never been a problem for me but I'm still terrified of going against the grain I guess
@kendra, thank you and I do have like 10 doctors and psychologists no worries

Sep 4, 2014

Bry R.

Those are so cute! I love wedge boots! Wear them and don't concern yourself with what people say.

Sep 4, 2014

Bry R.

I guess that's easy for me to say since I'm no longer in public school... I use to have very low self esteem. I still do sometimes, it's a struggle and I know how you feel. Just thinking about going back to public school makes me nauseous with anxiety. It's difficult to be confident when there are so many factors bringing us down, but when someone is confident, people notice because it's not very common. It's just something to work on. What I do, is I stand in front of a mirror, and make poses, trying to tell myself I look awesome. Then about after 10 minutes of pep talk, I'm ready to go and I don't look in the mirror to see if I look good anymore, I'll look to see if clothing or makeup needs adjusted, then I'll be on my way and it has really helped. don't look for your imperfections.

Sep 4, 2014

Molly S.

Girl I feel you. I once had a panic attack and cried then drove home because I wore a skirt to school. If you feel comfortable enough, then wear them. They are honestly very cute and I'm sure you'd look amazing in them! But, if you feel uncomfortable, just save them for outside school. I think they're cute though :)

Sep 4, 2014

Kendra H.

Ok! Just wanna make sure you are taking care of yourself! Everyone here is like a family member to me! XD they really are cute so I say go for it!!

Sep 4, 2014

Brenda O.

I think those are fine to wear,as long as they're not open toe:)