Not beauty but... How I be more confident in yourself?

Jan 5, 2014

Isabel M.

I want I be more confident In myself, but you don't know how or even where to start. Help me out beauties?

Jan 5, 2014

Alyssa M.

Be really positive about everything because it trains yourself to see the beauty in everything. Write down one thing every day that you like about yourself even if it's the smallest thing.

Jan 5, 2014

Isabel M.

Thank you girls! I'll defiantly try these! ❤️

Jan 5, 2014

Hannah J.

I struggle with confidence as well..😣

Jan 5, 2014

Isabel M.

I know , it's so hard. @Hannah J.

Jan 5, 2014

Brenna B.

Try new things and complement people when you see them to and when people complement you get all happy and say thankyou cause they don't know if you get complements a lot but your beautiful and everyone was made to look differant and honestly like knowone cares about looks anymore because there's such cruel people in the world but just be yourself and be happy and tell yourself your beautiful cause you are god made everyone beautiful in there one way somethimes you can't find it in your self but other people see it

Jan 5, 2014

Ruby M.

Try to think of all the great things about yourself without even considering any of your flaws. It's hard, but it works.

Jan 5, 2014

Ty R.

Write notes to yourself! On the mirror especially. When you look at yourself you'll see you notes to yourself! And regardless of what anyone has to say you're perfect how you are! You don't need to change anything about yourself for anyone else's gratification!

Jan 5, 2014

Gianna J.

Maybe I'm weird but I pretend that I'm celebrity, lol. it makes me feel more confident

Jan 5, 2014

Delight s.

I would think about my blessings... like your long beautiful hair full lips nice complexion some people don't have them features.. your gorgeous be better know it ;')

Jan 5, 2014

Delight s.

I forgot just looked at your pics them green eyes I wish.

Jan 5, 2014

Nala H.

Give zero f*cks about other people. Say, " I'm a pretty as* girl with an awesome f*cking personality and a good head on my shoulders and I give two sh*ts about someone who thinks differently." Least that's what I do. And if you don't like something about yourself, change it. And I don't mean surgery. If you don't like your weight (in my case), change it. If you don't like your hair, change it. Do what makes YOU happy, regardless of others. Never let outside issues effect you, how someone else looks, acts, dresses, that's them. You'll never be happy if you spend your life trying to be someone else. Just love you!

Jan 5, 2014

Diana S.

I use to be so negative and insecure too but when I entered high school that's when I realized I shouldn't be anymore. Always think of the positive an never the negative! In order to be successful in life you need to be confident(:

Jan 5, 2014

Shanice D.

I'm not a confident girl either but reading what your girls are saying has given me a new mindset x

Jan 5, 2014

Lisa S.

I used to be super self conscience and insecure but the older I get the more I realize that it doesn't matter what people think. I know thats very cliché but its true, I'm not saying thats an excuse to be a rude bitch and say whatever you want to people lol but I mean just own what you believe in and remember that you are not the only one who feels unconfident in themselves. Its really a learning process in this area, you have to try to not look for the bad in everything and realize what you do have to be grateful for and remember that everyone feels this way at sometimes...(:

Jan 5, 2014

Isabel M.

Thank you girls so so much. I honestly can't tell you how helpful you beauties are.

Jan 5, 2014

Mackenzi B.

Coming from a very self conscious person and self criticizing person and overall unconfident person, I'll just tell you what I try to do to help me. I don't think being rude or snapping back at people is the way to go. I don't want to be someone above others, just you know equal. Something's I try to do to gain tht sort of confidence is trying to get rid of stress because I blame that for a lot of my confidence issues. Another thing I try to do is make a list in the back of a notebook of all the things I want to accomplish then in the front of the book write everything good I do or accomplish. As I accomplish more of my goals I check them of in the back. On a bad, moody day, I read my book and remember al those good times and things I've done and I gain that self confidence I lost. Hope that helps, it helps me.

Jan 5, 2014

Mackenzi B.

I also have a jar of things I like about myself and why. That helps to look at too.

Jan 6, 2014

Isabel M.

Oh I am a hardcore believer in equality for everyone. I usually try to perk up, and when I try on clothes , I tell myself that it doesn't look that bad, it's just not for me. But sometimes I just sit down and cry because nothing looks good. I am trying hard to change my mindset. I am defiantly taking everyone of these tips.

Jan 6, 2014

Mackenzi B.

I have major body image problems and I try too hard to be someone I'm not sometimes. I cry too sometimes, looking at my fat and hips and everythig and wish I would just look good and make me happy. It doesn't ever come true though. I'm here for you :)