When People Judge!?

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Feb 10, 2013

Nvart D.

When people judge you because you do the sick bun often. What do you say or do?? Or feel??

Feb 10, 2013

Nvart D.

Sock bun ***

Feb 10, 2013

Coco L.

I'd feel 1) it's none of their business how I decide to wear my hair! 2) they don't have to look at my hair if they don't like it, no one is forcing them 3) why are you so interested in my hairstyle anyway, who made you my hairdresser? 4) I never asked you for your opinion/advice, so keep it to yourself etc

I hate judgmental ppl, they can shove it. Hun, wear your hair anyway you like. ,

Feb 10, 2013

Dana K.

Oooohhhhh! I wear mine kind of very ish big and some people are like 'uh mi gawd! you gawt lyke a frikkin bawll on yo hed gurrrrlllllll' and I am just like '...At least it's bigger than YO BRAIN! OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!'
No I am kidding. Kind of. partially. ish.
but seriously folks. People who care what my hair, that doesn't affect them, looks like aren't worth my time. My friends don't pay any mind to it, except my one girl thinks it is the cutest thing and keeps pestering me to wear it more often.
so yeah...
there's my answer.

Feb 10, 2013

Shelley W.

I'm so sick of the judging. Someone had a thread bashing some artist on tv and she stated that she does a better job than this tv personality (make-up artist) I thought to myself;"Let me check out her work" to see if it was indeed better. I go to her profile and she has no pics of her "work" even posted. Just some general random pics of hair products. I was like "WTF"! You going to bash someone but not even have work out there to even back up your claim. People that talk smack and want to be judgmental nit picks are not happy with themselves. And I usually don't let them get under my skin because I'm happy with my life and who I'am as a individual. People judge me all the time but I could care less. :)

Feb 10, 2013

Kenzie G.

I think this app is dumb. All it is is judging people or 12 year olds asking the same question over and over.

Feb 10, 2013

Dana K.

First of all, it's not just an app, it started out as a site. And second if you think it's stupid then you can proudly leave with your nose in the air. So what if people of a certain age group all have similar questions. Just help them out, or ignore them. There is enough room on this website for multiple and repetitive questions.

Feb 10, 2013

Coco L.

I ignore whatever I topic I deem uninteresting but I have to disagree with you about repetitive questions. They clutter up the forum, it's much smarter to use the search function of the site for similar topics because they've already been answered many times over.

Feb 11, 2013

Dana K.

Coco, this is true, but some people might have different branches of a certain question. Obviously the same exact question over and over is annoying. Pardon myself, I should have been more clear.

Feb 11, 2013

Kenzie G.

I'm not leaving with "my nose in the air" thanks anyway, though. Some people on this "site" actually have good advice, others, however,  don't.

Feb 11, 2013

Chardonnay E.

I agree with Dana K. I love this app, it has helped me out with a lot of things, & has taught me things for the future. plus it's good conversation.

Feb 11, 2013

Ana R.

I think you all have good points. I like this app/site because you get to interact with people from all over about all those things we girls love...makeup, beauty products, fashion, etc. As with any social media site, people will judge left and right. Just ignore it and let it go and don't judge yourself. I have to agree that unfortunately there are a lot of minors and teenagers so I am sometimes hesitant about the advice and tips I read :/

Feb 11, 2013

Dana K.

Ana, if you don't mind, please explain how being a minor affects the advice given. Whether your 'legal' or not does NOT determine how educated you are. There have been plenty of times when grown women ask me and other teenagers for advice. We are all on here to learn, and you pushing away a certain group's advice because they aren't of age to deal with legalities is absolutely absurd, and I worry about what put that notion in your mind in the first place.

Feb 11, 2013

Coco L.

I don't know what your definition of education is but I, for one, would call myself educated. I have a university degree. Education implies a formal training in which standardized curriculum is enforced by an accredited institution. That's my definition. Most teenagers would not have had graduated from college or makeup academy yet or have started a career or earned life experience with regard to relationships, family and jobs. As well, their brain is still not fully developed, biologically speaking. Age does determine education and life experience in this regard. This is not to say every adult is wiser ( there are exceptions and mitigating circumstances, of course), or that people who have not had the opportunity for advanced learning are inferior. The logical assumption is that grownups would rather get valid and reliable advice from someone with more personal experience with makeup/hair/fashion (by virtue of age, they would have had more time to learn and experiment), someone who is a makeup artist, someone who is a hairstylist, someone who is an esthetician etc. What adults are looking for isn't always what teenagers/tweens are offering.

Feb 11, 2013

Ana R.

Before you get all jumpy and make a big deal about it Dana, I am NOT in any way pushing away their advice. All I am saying is that in a way. I have NOT said they are uneducated in any way. Everyone has their different opinions. Whether you choose to respect mine and my comment or continue making a big deal is up to you.

Feb 11, 2013

Ana R.

Before you get all jumpy and make a big deal about it Dana, I am NOT in any way pushing away their advice. All I am saying is that in a way. I have NOT said they are uneducated in any way. Everyone has their different opinions. Whether you choose to respect mine and my comment or continue making a big deal is up to you.

Feb 11, 2013

Ana R.

Thanks Coco and yes I agree with many of the things you said. However, all I am saying is that I personally am hesitant. Just like I am with some adults on here too. I am in NO way saying anything else nor bashing on education, life experience, etc.

Feb 11, 2013

Dana K.

You're opinion is a hurtful judgement, which is, oh look at that, exactly what this thread is talking about not doing.
Coco, just because you have a degree in something doesn't mean you are any smarter than anyone. For example, there are people who graduate highschool, but they're not the smartest kid, and there are people who get their GED at 16 but they could have gone to an ivy league school. Age doesn't determine anything, nor does a signed piece of paper.
I'm sorry if I find your opinions offensive in saying that I know less of what I am talking about just because I am young and not a 'professional'. Pardon me for having feelings.

Feb 11, 2013

Chantal D.

I love this app. I love the community feel and I love that it's all women! I feel like we're are All sharing the same interests! As for the judging it happens all the time in real life I find that people are negative unhappy or jealous do they enjoy to pick things about other people. I for one am not like that. I'm happy if my friends looks good or does well. I have one friend who always has to one up me it's So annoying!

Feb 11, 2013

Coco L.

Dana, I can agree with you that age doesn't determine intellect but there are different levels of intellect as well as maturity. Just like there are differences between certified beautician and self-taught. People spend tens of thousands of dollars to go get their certificate, diploma, degree, what have you. Tell them that means nothing. Tell the professionals that their work is just as good as a teenager's. They'll find you offensive, no doubt. When you go into the real world, the grownup world, employers are going to look at that piece of paper that means nothing. You don't need to take my comment personally.

Feb 11, 2013

Ana R.

I agree with you 100% Coco...my comment was in no way meant to offend you or your "skills." You're taking offense and taking it to the extreme...just respect people's opinions. It's not aimed at you or your work.

Feb 11, 2013

Ana R.

I agree with you 100% Coco...my comment was in no way meant to offend you or your "skills." You're taking offense and taking it to the extreme...just respect people's opinions. It's not aimed at you or your work.

Feb 11, 2013

Ana R.

I agree with you 100% Coco...my comment was in no way meant to offend you or your "skills." You're taking offense and taking it to the extreme...just respect people's opinions. It's not aimed at you or your work.

Feb 11, 2013

Ana R.

And thank you Coco...you couldn't have said it better! that's exactly how I feel.

Feb 12, 2013

Chardonnay E.

extraa lol