
Confessions Of A Nouveau Natural Woman
"Don't Sweat the Technique" by Dre Brown
I was head over curls in love with my new natural hair after biting the bullet and shaving off my relaxed tresses. I watched and soon the fuzz grew into supple coils, now long enough to pull like springs as I daydreamed at the office or on the bus ride home (oftentimes nearly missing my stop, LOL). Love-struck, my virgin locks had become my new favorite things . . . and the time had come to take our relationship to the next level!
To spice things up, I sought to assemble a bag of tricks sure to bring the fire out of my beloved curls. So I did what any lovesick newly-natural woman would do—I headed for the nearest beauty supply store, on a mission to buy any- and everything I could find to fancy my new 'do.
There I stood in the ethnic hair care aisle surrounded by rows of bronze jars and tropically adorned bottles of kinky-this and curly-that—each concoction promising a deeper love affair with my hair. But what would be a sure thing?
As my natural hair grew in, I'd learned that it was prone to dryness, so the allure of oils—coconut, jojoba, shea, and olive—first drew my attention. My eyes got the best of me here, as I selected the most attractive containers of each oil-infused variety. (Sue me! I’m a sucker for a pretty face). But, what about the “conscious” products—those touting “all natural” and “organic" labels? They had to be better choices, right? Every product suggestion I’d gathered from friends, the web, and television started swirling through my head all at once—each driving me to chuck yet another bottle into my basket.
I rushed home with a truckload of new creams, custards, and curly cocktails—determined to try each of them. What started as a night of experimentation turned into weeks of product auditioning. Some sent my hair to the moon, while others barely got it off the ground. In the process, I learned that every product with “oil” in the name didn’t soothe my curls’ dry spells. To my surprise, some of the lesser-known brands proved to be as effective as the big names.
With each new product I twisted and scrunched into my curls, I found truth in what I’d heard so many times from veteran naturals—Don’t sweat the technique, because with natural hair styling, it’s all in the product!
So I heeded their warning. And, after careful selection, my big bag of tricks soon found itself containing only a few tried and true potions—each with my new love’s stamp of approval . . .
1 Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In Conditioning Repair Cream
This shea butter cream works better than any of the oils. I use it daily to fight dryness and provide additional leave-in conditioning after 'co-washing.'
2 Organix Coconut Milk Conditioner
Instead of using traditional shampoo, I 'co-wash' with a rich, sulfate-free conditioner to rid my hair of dirt and product build-up.
3 Kinky-Curly “Knot Today” Leave-in/Detangler
I keep the kinks I want and comb through the ones I don't with this detangler.
Check back next week for Part 3 in Dre Brown's Nouveau Natural saga: "From 'Cutie' to 'Queen'"
Did you miss Part 1? "The Bold, The Bald, and The Beautiful"
Driven to infuse each encounter with joy-inducing laughter, Dre Brown (before and after her run-in with the clippers, left) seeks to offer those she reaches both something for the eye and for the soul. Based out of New York City, Dre splits her time between makeup artistry, hair styling, strategic marketing, writing and entrepreneurship. Follow her exploits on her blog: a Dre in The Life
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Driven to infuse each encounter with joy-inducing laughter,
Jan 28, 2013
Raquel d.
Great post. I've been natural since 2007 and I find that the products that work best on my hair are not expensive and can be purchased at the Family Dollar Store. I swear by Hollywood Beauty products. I love their tea tree oil and Olive Oil Creme Hairdress
Jan 25, 2013
Rikki Y.
The best way to moisturize I found is hair butters.I love the AfroVeda brand. It has changed my hair and my daughters hair. I wear my hair relaxed and my girls are of mixed race and it works for all of us.
Sep 10, 2012
Anissa K.
i'm curious about natural products for babies. i live in Las Vegas where its extremely dry. my daughter is 5 months old and has about 3 differnet textures in her hair. Top being curly, middle being extremely coarse, dry and brittle and back, very fine and straight as it was when she was born. Anyone know whats safe for african america babies at this age to provide great moisture.
Nov 16, 2012
Charnell C.
May 25, 2011
Timberly W.
I've tried CANTU and I love it as a leave-in. My go to product is Hawaiian Silky. My hair gets really dry, frizzy and big during the summer months. So far, Hawaiian Silky has been the only product that has been able to tame my natural curls, the best $4.99 I've ever spent on my hair!
May 25, 2011
Ron P.
Keeping it real. I only shampoo my hair once a month but condition it every morning when in the shower. I style my hair with leave in and try to keep hair gels away. I use baby diapers to dry my hair. Terry cloth snags and moves the hair to much. Once i put leave in conditioner in my hair i don't touch it in tell it dries.
Aug 22, 2012
Cerita S.
May 22, 2011
Jessica D.
I use the organix coconut milk conditioner and my hair loves it's! It makes my hair detangled and very easy to manage. Also it makes my curls more defined! Thank you beautylish for this article, great to see a natural hair post on here!
May 21, 2011
Dominique J.
I haven't tried the Cantu yet, but I LOVE the Organix coconut milk...it smells so good. I alternate between flat-ironing my hair and rocking the curliness, so this'll be a good article to reference for the summer. Thanks!
May 17, 2011
Shannon S.
i co-sign on the cantu 100%. absolutely a staple in my hair regiment. i discovered it in tarzhay when i just could fathom paying $25+ for a jar of custard such and such. cantu is super soft and light-weight.
i also absolutely love V05 for my co-wash. learned about it from a natural hair care video on youtube and now i won't comb my hair out without it. :-)
May 19, 2011
Dre B.
May 17, 2011
Tara J.
Great article! I've recently fallen in love with KC Knot Today and will definitely look into trying the other products you mentioned... product swap anyone? :-)
Finding the right product for your natural hair can be a daunting (yet fun!) task, but once you find the right products to "make it do what it do" - oh baby! Any suggestions for products that give you curl definition but don't make your hair feel crunchy (or have build-up)?
May 17, 2011
Dre B.
May 17, 2011
Tara J.
May 16, 2011
Jamillah H.
I've been natural for about 7 months now [my photo is super old!] I remember ripping and running to Sally's constantly!!! Trying every new thing I could find to keep my hair moisturized and looking good. I am just now settling down into a regimen that keeps my little afro moisturized and nicely coiled. So kudos to you for finding a good balance so early in the game
May 17, 2011
Dre B.