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by Dre Brown

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Confessions Of A Nouveau Natural Woman

"Don't Sweat the Technique" by Dre Brown

I was head over curls in love with my new natural hair after biting the bullet and shaving off my relaxed tresses. I watched and soon the fuzz grew into supple coils, now long enough to pull like springs as I daydreamed at the office or on the bus ride home (oftentimes nearly missing my stop, LOL). Love-struck, my virgin locks had become my new favorite things . . . and the time had come to take our relationship to the next level!

To spice things up, I sought to assemble a bag of tricks sure to bring the fire out of my beloved curls. So I did what any lovesick newly-natural woman would do—I headed for the nearest beauty supply store, on a mission to buy any- and everything I could find to fancy my new 'do.

There I stood in the ethnic hair care aisle surrounded by rows of bronze jars and tropically adorned bottles of kinky-this and curly-that—each concoction promising a deeper love affair with my hair. But what would be a sure thing?

As my natural hair grew in, I'd learned that it was prone to dryness, so the allure of oils—coconut, jojoba, shea, and olive—first drew my attention. My eyes got the best of me here, as I selected the most attractive containers of each oil-infused variety. (Sue me! I’m a sucker for a pretty face). But, what about the “conscious” products—those touting “all natural” and “organic" labels? They had to be better choices, right? Every product suggestion I’d gathered from friends, the web, and television started swirling through my head all at once—each driving me to chuck yet another bottle into my basket.

I rushed home with a truckload of new creams, custards, and curly cocktails—determined to try each of them. What started as a night of experimentation turned into weeks of product auditioning. Some sent my hair to the moon, while others barely got it off the ground. In the process, I learned that every product with “oil” in the name didn’t soothe my curls’ dry spells. To my surprise, some of the lesser-known brands proved to be as effective as the big names.

With each new product I twisted and scrunched into my curls, I found truth in what I’d heard so many times from veteran naturals—Don’t sweat the technique, because with natural hair styling, it’s all in the product!

So I heeded their warning. And, after careful selection, my big bag of tricks soon found itself containing only a few tried and true potions—each with my new love’s stamp of approval . . .

1 Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In Conditioning Repair Cream

This shea butter cream works better than any of the oils. I use it daily to fight dryness and provide additional leave-in conditioning after 'co-washing.'

2 Organix Coconut Milk Conditioner

Instead of using traditional shampoo, I 'co-wash' with a rich, sulfate-free conditioner to rid my hair of dirt and product build-up.

3 Kinky-Curly “Knot Today” Leave-in/Detangler

I keep the kinks I want and comb through the ones I don't with this detangler.

Check back next week for Part 3 in Dre Brown's Nouveau Natural saga: "From 'Cutie' to 'Queen'"

Did you miss Part 1? "The Bold, The Bald, and The Beautiful"

Driven to infuse each encounter with joy-inducing laughter, Dre Brown (before and after her run-in with the clippers, left) seeks to offer those she reaches both something for the eye and for the soul. Based out of New York City, Dre splits her time between makeup artistry, hair styling, strategic marketing, writing and entrepreneurship. Follow her exploits on her blog: a Dre in The Life

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I've tried CANTU and I love it as a leave-in. My go to product is Hawaiian Silky. My hair gets really dry, frizzy and big during the summer months. So far, Hawaiian Silky has been the only product that has been able to tame my natural curls, the best $4.99 I've ever spent on my hair!

Keeping it real. I only shampoo my hair once a month but condition it every morning when in the shower. I style my hair with leave in and try to keep hair gels away. I use baby diapers to dry my hair. Terry cloth snags and moves the hair to much. Once i put leave in conditioner in my hair i don't touch it in tell it dries.

I use the organix coconut milk conditioner and my hair loves it's! It makes my hair detangled and very easy to manage. Also it makes my curls more defined! Thank you beautylish for this article, great to see a natural hair post on here!

I haven't tried the Cantu yet, but I LOVE the Organix coconut milk...it smells so good. I alternate between flat-ironing my hair and rocking the curliness, so this'll be a good article to reference for the summer. Thanks!

i co-sign on the cantu 100%. absolutely a staple in my hair regiment. i discovered it in tarzhay when i just could fathom paying $25+ for a jar of custard such and such. cantu is super soft and light-weight.

i also absolutely love V05 for my co-wash. learned about it from a natural hair care video on youtube and now i won't comb my hair out without it. :-)

SHANNNNNNN! So glad to see you've joined the Beatylish gang! I am going to try the VO5! Great suggestion :-)

Great article! I've recently fallen in love with KC Knot Today and will definitely look into trying the other products you mentioned... product swap anyone? :-)
Finding the right product for your natural hair can be a daunting (yet fun!) task, but once you find the right products to "make it do what it do" - oh baby! Any suggestions for products that give you curl definition but don't make your hair feel crunchy (or have build-up)?

Thanks Tara! Another product I love that defines, yet has a soft finish is Hair Rules Kinky Curly Cream. You use it in the shower for optimal results and it works wonders!

Awesome - thanks Dre!

I've been natural for about 7 months now [my photo is super old!] I remember ripping and running to Sally's constantly!!! Trying every new thing I could find to keep my hair moisturized and looking good. I am just now settling down into a regimen that keeps my little afro moisturized and nicely coiled. So kudos to you for finding a good balance so early in the game

Thanks Jamillah! I commend you as well. It takes time to nail the right regimen, and it can change from season to season so remaining open and learning your hair's ebbs and flows is key. Good luck!

I'm biracial and I've always had troubles with my really curly hair, until I used a product recently called Mixed Chicks. The thing that really helps is their leave-in-conditioner, and my hair seriously has never looked better curly in my life before. And it's actually manageable.. I don't have to spend hours trying to figure out what to do, and I don't need to straighten it every day anymore because it can look really great now curly. I would definitely recommend it also to anyone who has incredibly curly hair--no matter whether you're mixed or not :D

Great, Samantha! Glad to hear you found a product that works for you! Mixed Chicks is definitely a great line. Thanks for sharing.

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