Husband Help!!!!!!

Dec 11, 2012

Lauren L.

My hubby likes the "Barbie" girls.. That's really not me.. But lately he's been in contact with his ex girlfriends.. I need to spice up my look so my husband isn't looking around at other girls!! Please help with some tips advice anything!!!

Dec 11, 2012

Lauren L.

I'm desperate please help!!!

Dec 11, 2012

Shelley W.

Wait a minute....let me understand this....your husband has been contacting ex girlfriends? You asked for advice/tips....you may not like what I have to say but I'm gonna say it because I'm married myself. First, off your husband is totally disrespecting you as his wife and the vows he made to you at the altar. Any married man that seeks out ex girlfriends is up to no good and no amount of dolling yourself up is going to change his behavior. If he had any respect for you as his wife he wouldn't be interested in other women. Its one thing to "window shop" but quite another to actually shop for the attention of another. I highly suggest you have a long sit down conversation with him and ask what the heck is going on. Many of once married friends went down this path and did exactly what you're attempting to do. Failed miserably. You are a beautiful gal from looking at your pic (your hubby is trippin') and you need to get to the root of the problem instead of masking it with glitz and glam. ;)

Dec 11, 2012

Julez V.

^^^agree

Dec 11, 2012

Violett J.

I wouldn't change my look ! My ex loved punk looking girls with facial piercings pink hair all that . Ofcourse I wanted to make him happy but I didn't change a thing. Two years later I'm with a guy who loves everything! So please don't change :/  

Dec 11, 2012

Lauren L.

Thanks girls! I totally agree too! 

Dec 11, 2012

Shelley W.

Hugs Lauren L. I was so scared you'd be offended by my post but I just couldn't sit back and remain silent. 

Dec 11, 2012

Elli G.

Agree with you Shelley! And Lauren your beautiful! Been married 14 years and been loved for who I am...every woman deserves that from their partner:)

Dec 12, 2012

Lauren L.

Yeah I agree and would give the same advice to anyone else as well.. It seems more "painless" to become a "Barbie" than divorce.. 

Dec 12, 2012

Kelsey C.

I agree with Shelley W.!!!

Dec 12, 2012

Ilana E.

@shelley I was going to same something of that nature but i held my tongue I'm glad you said it though.
@lauren your a very beautiful woman and if your husband can't see that he is blind I wish you all the best though and don't change for anybody.