I just need to vent.

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Apr 22, 2013

Kat R.

Okay, so my boyfriend is going away to Ohio for college this year, while I will be finishing my senior year of high school.. Today was our 5 year anniversary and I was really hoping for a proposal. I bought him gifts, and I didn't get anything /: I'm freaking out..

Apr 22, 2013

Chelsey W.

Maybe he's saving a surprise ;-)

Apr 22, 2013

Maruby M.

Your a senior in high school you don't need to be tied down so young.

Apr 22, 2013

Lainie N.

I agree with Kaley and senior is a little young. Don't sweat it.

Apr 22, 2013

Kat R.

Up here people get married at a younger age. Like this summer I'm in my best friends wedding and she's only a senior this year.

Apr 22, 2013

Maruby M.

Where are you from??

Apr 22, 2013

Caitlyn B.

Maybe he just wants to wait until after college, so he doesn't have to propose and then leave you back home..

Apr 22, 2013

Kat R.

Upstate NY.

Apr 22, 2013

Tee R.

I know this is not the best advice but you also got to think about the bad. What if he doesn't want to get married.

Apr 22, 2013

Kat R.

Yeah, Tee, I asked him that today and he said the only thing stopping him is apparently he doesn't have the money or he would. But I don't want a big fancy ring I just want one for the meaning so that I feel more, "safer" when he's gone to college.

Apr 22, 2013

Kat R.

I sound like a brat.. Lol

Apr 22, 2013

Sally H.

No you don't. I get what you mean.

Apr 22, 2013

Tee R.

I get what you mean you don't even really need one if you wanna get married just get married.

Apr 22, 2013

Rose D.

Hay it will come you love echothher it will come.

Apr 22, 2013

Sophie M.

where in upstate?(:

Apr 22, 2013

Nancy S.

Haha down in the south noone I know gets engaged when they are a senior that sounds insane to me almost noone even dates until sophmore/junior year.

Apr 22, 2013

Madi M.

I understand you! I haven't been in a situation anywhere near that but that sounds
Frustrating! Hope everything works out! 5 years is a long time...somthing will happen soon :)

Apr 22, 2013

Katarina M.

Most people think that's "too young" to get married. But, you guys have been together five years. it makes perfect sense to me to get married! I think it's more about how long you've been together than how old you are. As long as you two have been together, it's bound to happen eventually, even though I understand how irritating waiting that long can be.

Apr 22, 2013

Katarina M.

And I don't think guys fully understand the whole feeling secure thing, honestly. Maybe if you talked to him you could explain your side or figure something out? Or you could try a promise ring or something, anything that would give the same effect.

Apr 22, 2013

Fanny L.

I feel like getting a ring won't make you feel anymore secure. If you trust him then you trust him. If you don't then you don't. He's going away for college and at the end of the day, it really depends on your communication with him and his own self consciousness about his doings that will keep things working out. Trust me, coming from someone that's been in a similar situation, a ring and a promise won't get you far.