How do you cope with your insecurities?
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Apr 7, 2013
Sarah J.
Apr 7, 2013
Sarah J.
Oh and my ears stick out more than I think,they should :p sometimes I wanna pin them down with.a.needle.
Apr 7, 2013
Manal M.
My insecurities are my face shape, everyone I know think a heart shaped or slim face looks appealing. I feel like a child with no jaw definition sometimes. But at the end of the day, I wouldn't change the way I am. You're beautiful, please embrace it! There might be some people who wish to have looks like you! I think it all matters on what's on the inside, you're beautiful either way, all of you.
Apr 7, 2013
Taylor G.
You are so pretty Sarah! Everyone has insecurities. We just have to look in the mirror and tell ourselves we are beautiful and see ourselves as others see us:)
Apr 7, 2013
Kelly M.
I have two dark moles on my face. I don't oftentimes think about them since they've been there all my life, but it still crosses my mind every now and then about how they must be the very first thing a person notices about me, that people who don't know me well probably remember me as "the woman with the two moles on her face." I'm usually fine with them, but there have been times where I've seriously considered having them removed even though it would definitely leave a scar. I just remember that it does not matter what other people think about your appearance, and it's what's on the inside that counts.
Apr 7, 2013
Sarah J.
Wells thanks you guys. Are you sure though..I mean..I just.never havw felt beautiful. I can't see what others.see. Ps I like your chin and jaw shape. It's really hard looking beyhond insecurities sometimes..
Apr 7, 2013
Hannah R.
You have a great jaw line. Just look at yourself in the mirrior and say I am beuatiful. Nothing is going to bring me down.my insecturties are my details that make me beautiful. They are who I am. I was bullied a ton when I was younger. Shunned from my whole grade. Now even when I walk through the halls I feel like people are talking about me. When I see people look at me funny I feel bad. But I realized it made me stronger and it made me me. I just sometimes have to take a deep breath and say I can do this. There is nothing wrong. They aren't talking about me. And I they are let them.
Apr 7, 2013
Lynn J.
Just love yourself the way you are regardless of what anyone else is thinking!! All your insecurities will vanish:-) your beautiful hun.
Apr 7, 2013
Nehal S.
I don't see anything wrong with the size of your head all I noticed is that you have beautiful lips , we all have insecurities mine is my thighs but I focus on the good things like being curvy or other things I like about myself
Apr 7, 2013
Kaitlin K.
I haaate my legs. I'm very slim on top but ALL my weight goes to my thighs.and my calves are really... Wide. And my knees are suuper large and waay darker than the rest of me! And sarah you are so beautiful... Everybody has insecurities, but you can't let them hold you down. It's taken me a lot of time to get over it, but now I just think "well this is me, and I can't change it so whatever!" You just have to let go. I know it's hard.
Apr 7, 2013
Lessa C.
When I saw your pics I literally gasped and murmured "shes so pretty" I have a lot of insecurities... the dark circles under my eyes, my broken nose, my acne, my freckles, dark spots and the pits on my face
Apr 7, 2013
Lynn J.
Right Em Confidence=loving yourself.
Apr 7, 2013
Lynn J.
I used to be insecure about my lips but thanks to Angelina Jolie I love them & everything about me!! :-)
Apr 7, 2013
Lynea I.
Sarah, you have a beautiful and very unique jaw line that is actually very reminiscent of the women in the renaissance. you could be a model, not just because you are beautiful but because your bone structure is so unique it would photograph amazingly. :)
Apr 7, 2013
Sarah J.
Awh thanks you guys! Youre all very strong. I hope someday I am more confident. I'd love to let go.
Apr 7, 2013
Bella B.
Sarah, no one can see how they look to everyone else. Even models like heidi klum have their insecurities! :)
As the girls here have said, you're beautiful!! You don't have to look 'normal' to be beautiful because at the end of the day, what is normal?
You may think you're not that special but I assure you there are guys put there that admire you in the street, even if they don't say anything. ( they just don't want to be rude )
Chin up lovely, you're gorgeous :)
X
Apr 7, 2013
Bella B.
You need to shhh 'cause you're perfect the way you are :))
Apr 7, 2013
Bella B.
Lynea has a point here too, you have the perfect facial structure for a model. Chase up that profession!
Apr 7, 2013
Salena A.
I just look at untouched photos of celebrities and then I'm like aaahhh yes haha
Apr 8, 2013
Payton K.
I HATE my teeth, but I don't ever think about it. Its weird, 2 years ago I was too insecure, last year I was conceited and now I'm pretty neutral(: Everyone has insecurities, and if someone points out yours it means they are just as insecure or maybe a little more(: Everyone reading this is beautiful and Sarah, you are perf (;
Apr 8, 2013
Emily C.
Well one thing my therapist told me to do was every day, to say an affirmation. That is saying something good about yourself, like "my eyes are beautiful" or "my hair is gorgeous today" things like that, even if you don't believe it. Try staying positive and after a while it helps.