Help Me I'M Scarde.
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Apr 10, 2013
Beau B.
Hi I want to be a harajuku girl or gotic lolita bud I'm scarde what people think... and school.. help and I'm 13.
Apr 10, 2013
Erika G.
Why do you wanna be that?
Apr 10, 2013
Megan L.
I think you should just be yourself and wear what you like without placing a label on yourself.
Apr 10, 2013
Tiffany P.
I don't mean to be a downer but I feel like gothics are easily judged. So be aware of that! I agree with Megan on this one. You should be 100% you!
Apr 10, 2013
Beau B.
Thnx all of you!!
Apr 10, 2013
Beau B.
Erika I like to be cute haha no I like cute things and I go to japan party things...
Apr 10, 2013
Abby W.
Lolita style is awesome, but, depending on where you live, you could get bullied for it. I wore it once and everyone thought I was a child prostitute (lolita) and a freak. Also, no matter how tempting it may be, DO NOT order of Milanoo. And do your research.
Apr 10, 2013
Natalie T.
Oh man I love that style. I was totally into it around your age and wore a lot of EGL items...(My boyfriend and I still flip through all my FRUiTS books and Gothic &Lolita Bibles from the early 2000s). It did tend to look a little slutty at times, so I would be aware of that. My dad wouldn't let me wear a lot of the clothes (with my favorite 6 inch platform boots) out with him in public because of that. I never really got made fun of though, but I went to school with kids I knew since I was 5 and was always known as the "fashion girl" so everyone thought it was totally cool and onboard with it. That isn't the case in most schools, but who cares what other people think anyways!? Go for it, if you like it!
Apr 11, 2013
Isabel H.
Wear what you feel comfortable in and don't worry what other people think and don't feel like you have to label yourself.