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Jan 17, 2013
Daniela M.
How do i get over the past of my boyfriends exs? He used to be a player but he changed allthough i cant stop thinking about all the girls hes played with before getting with me . 😔😔😔😔
Jan 17, 2013
Vanessa C.
Once a player always a player. Id dump him before I got really attached.
You wont be able to get over it, those girls are going to be constant reminders of his fucked up ways, and he'll most likely revert to his habits. People can change, but never for forever. Remember that.
Jan 17, 2013
cynthia r.
Im going thru the same thing me n my bf have a son n live with eachother and honestly if you want to be with him then u just have to forget the past same as I do cause if not it will ruin your future with him .. im not sure how long u been with your bf but ive been with mine for 4 years so its to hard to let go but I hope for the best and right now were actually in a lil argument are selfs but its also about good communication skills theres times when I get scared what if hes to his old ways n all I do is try to talk to him let him know your not tryna fight but ur still scared hopfully he will confert u n let u know he aint doing nothin but other than that depending how how many times u plan on letting him do fcked up things is all on u ive let my bf do plenty so im not talking shit but now that we live with eachother n have a son if I ever find anything out then im out cause im not gonna be sitting at home playing wifey if hes out doing me dirty.... so just think of it like that right now u guys r good so just try to forget what happen n untill u find something else out then see what u wanna do about it n remember try not to let ur head play to many games cause it will fck up everything trust me I do that n it makes the situation worse unless u have a big big feeling about something n u have good points then go crazy fck it lol hope I helped u out in a way :)
Jan 17, 2013
Jess P.
Give it time the longer your with sum one the less jelous you get. But Iwould never discuss the Past his or yours.
Jan 17, 2013
Natalie T.
Thats a tough one. This is where trust is really important and definitely something you have to work on. My boyfriend actually moved in with his most serious ex-girlfriend (of many many years) after we began "seeing" each other. He moved in with her at about the same time I decided I would exclusively date him, so I had to take that into consideration when I decided to begin a relationship with only him. Jealousy was definitely an issue at first, but in my case, it got better when I got to know her. I do get annoyed when he talks about all of his ex girlfriends since he is still great friends with a few of them. But I have learned not to be jealous of them which took some time and a lot of open discussions. I have a hard time expressing myself and opening up but it is totally worth it when you are able to talk about your concerns openly. He was never a "player" though and he is honest (actually too honest where it is really annoy or inappropriate at times), but it gives me a lot of comfort. So how I would deal with this situation is to talk about your concerns with your boyfriend and assess your level of trust with him. If you don't trust him, the problem is never going to go away or improve, you have to work on building it, I think.