If you're having a BAD DAY too, let me know! And please share this with anyone that this might help!
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I was just having a tough, rough, hard, week and it felt like I was having some bad days and I wanted to encourage you guys if you are going through anything hard or hurtful or painful! Some tips to get through a "BAD DAY" or bad week or year!
Some days it feels like we are being crushed on every side, as if there's not one more word or problem we can handle. As if hope is nothing more than a word that sounds good and it's nothing that we have left to hold onto. Some moments as we walk around and go about our business, no one knows the pain, struggle, hurt, hardship or problems we are dealing with on the inside.
Some moments, even in a crowded room, we can feel more alone than ever.
Sometimes our hearts hurts, hurt so much you don't know how you'll get through the pain, or the pain you know is ahead, or the pain you have from your past.
I know, on the outside, just like everyone on the internet anywhere can seem, from facebook to instagram...that everyone's life is so fun, perfect, filled with success....but the truth is, the shiny exterior that everyone gets to see, is usually always never what's really happening on the inside.
I want you to know my heart hurts, I feel like a failure, I've had hurts, I have hurts, I live with pain, I have moments when I feel overwhelmed and hopeless...
I want you to know you can go on. I will walk through hard moments, and so can you, and grow stronger. It's the hard things that prepare you for greatness. I know what it's like to be hungry, to not want to wake up in the morning because the pain was too bad, to feel like nothing good will ever happen to you.
And I'm not getting gonna get religious on you, but I know in those times....I had no idea what God had in store for me. God says he will give you beauty for your ashes. (And if you don't believe in God, maybe you'll just enjoy this as a beautiful parable or metaphor for life and trouble)...But I love the idea that for all the ashes..all the pile of things that feel like they were consumed by the fire of hardships and hurt, and just left me with a pile of ugly ashes...that God will take those and give us beauty! NOT beauty as the world sees it - perfect lips, eyes, mouth or hair...but true beauty! The beauty that is the splendor of a happy heart! The beauty of blessings in our life, things we can't believe, moments we treasure!
Don't look at your heap of "manure" of your life....look for the beautiful flowers that are going to grow bigger from all that manure, that wouldn't grow so beautifully if it weren't for all that "poop" in your life that you've gone through!
You are not alone if you've felt any of that! I've felt some of the things I said this very day, and I want you to know I love you and think you're beautiful and amazing and so strong for going through all that you have...just you wait and see what God has waiting for you around the bend in life that you just can't see yet! It's gonna be amazing! And it's all going to be ok my darling!
I love you all so much!