Bullying that never stops

Jan 9, 2013

Tyler B.

Hmmm, I'm not sure, Why does she pick on you? Usually bullies bully because their insecure and need to get someone else down.

Jan 10, 2013

Krystal B.

One I've been there. Fighting is never the answer, and ignoring it will only make u more and more defensive as the anger inside of u builds... The best solution is to (and this may sound insane) pull her to the side have a 1 on 1 and address the issue, she will be caught off guard, and with her "friends" around she will be more receptive and I can almost guarantee (unless she's a wild boar) that it'll all die down. Promise

Jan 9, 2013

Jenna S.

The next time she insults you just laugh with her of just smile. Bullys feed on how people get upset. 

Jan 9, 2013

Kitty M.

I always like to kill em with kindness! Negative people are just not worth your time and energy.

Jan 9, 2013

Paisly H.

Get em with kindness! This honestly the missing key to the door that unlocks greatness :))

Jan 10, 2013

Sarah L.

Have your parents not done anything? Get your parents to drive you to this girls house and make it their problem. You shouldn't have to deal with this alone. Shout to every one about it and embarrass her. I 

Jan 10, 2013

Sarah L.

Chrisi P I couldn't agree with you more. You are absolutely right. 

Jan 10, 2013

Krystal B.

Oh remember to be sweet, but assertive^_~

Jan 13, 2013

Maria M.

Fighting isn't going to solve anything but show her that she has been hurting you. Whenever she points negative things about you smile and say thank you. But in your head say something positive about yourself. I was bullied and learned that for every negative said I could find something beautiful about myself. As time goes on you will feel better about yourself so don't let what ever insecurities this bully has ruin your life. 

Jan 9, 2013

Monica K.

I'll just explain the short version. This girl picks on me, i confronted her about it for ignoring it for so long and then we ended up fighting. Got suspended, came back and thought everything is over with. Obviously that's not the case. She is constantly seeking attention and trying to make me seem like the weaker link. I'm trying hard not to let it get to me again but i feel like my only option now is to go for a round two. Maybe it'll teach her to stfu. Someone please just give me some type of advice or something.

Jan 9, 2013

Miss F.

Smile and say thanks your (insert a flattering thing here) too! 

Jan 9, 2013

Sarah J.

I think either fake them out with kindness or don't pay attention to it! Bullies stop bullying once they see its not doing anything. I was bullied a lot when I was little, and I ignored them and they did go away

Jan 9, 2013

Monica K.

Erica: honesty i dont know why. Her and her friends do everything in their power to put me down but i just ignore it. I can only ignore it for so long though..

Jan 9, 2013

Reem A.

Just ignore them. Don't let them see that they're getting to you. They're probably jealous of you and want to weaken you. You just have to stay strong and don't let those idiots get to you.

Jan 9, 2013

Tyler B.

Well I would dl what the girls here say, just lough it off and tell them how sad they are,also ignore them, or you could pick on them for a change!!

Jan 9, 2013

Amy W.

She's probably jealous as fuck. I've dealt with the same thing girl but when it escalated to fighting she was scared, all bark no bite. Just act confident and just ignore what she says or laugh at her.

Jan 9, 2013

Angie O.

you go girl! i believe in you!

Jan 9, 2013

Kim P.

Find something to do with your time so it can't get to you, like reading or practicing an instrument, and get closer to your close friends. Make sure you're busy and positive, and when you're an open target at school then you can just laugh and ignore her. Whatever you do, keep yourself occupied and try to find yourself and be at peace with yourself, it will only make them more jealous, but you'll be officially too busy to even notice!

Jan 9, 2013

Ave M.

I'm not all for violence but in more cases than not it works. I beat this girl who was constantly bugging me up pretty bad. After that she stopped and so did all her friends. We are actually perfectly fine now and she dated my little brother for a bit.

I had to go through a diversion program to avoid charges but the women running the program said that when the victim lashes out violently it usually stops. She actually wanted me to go speak with her at schools all over the province.

It's not always the answer but if you truly believe it may stop her then its worth a shot. Some people need to be taken down a peg.

Jan 9, 2013

Noelle L.

This GUY picks on me any my friend because he for some reason hates us. He is a wackjob. He actually posted on facebook a list of people (including me) that he was going to shoot. His was to bring a gun to school and kill us all on 12/21/12. Clearly Im alive. I personally think he is crazy and needs to go to a flipping mental institute. Until he gets expelled what I do is just try to avoid and ignore. If he talk to me and says something mean I just tell him to please mind his own business. He scares me o.0

Jan 9, 2013

Ave M.

Ignoring them doesn't always work and I HATE when people say it does. Some of my friends I. Highschool were bullies and they just thought the people who ignored them were afraid of them or complete cowards.

It never stopped them from being mean to them. 

Jan 9, 2013

Melanie S.

I know it sounds cliche but people only bully people because they have no way to feel better about themselves, high school can be hard. Don't let her see that you care, she's looking for a reaction, just don't give her what she wants. 

Jan 9, 2013

Ave M.

Omg noelle did you call the police?! That's not something to joke about. He should have been expelled for that.

Jan 9, 2013

Ave M.

And Melanie that's also not always the case. Sometimes people are just dicks. My old friends thought they were the hottest coolest people around (in sure they still do) and they picked on people to seem more powerful. They sure as hell didn't seem to have ANY insecurities and they all ended up being rather successful and I'm sure they are still bitches.

Some people bully out of insecurities and some do it because they have a giant ego. People with huge egos really do believe they are awesome and generally have pretty high self esteems. 

Jan 9, 2013

Ave M.

She may want a reaction but I bet she doesn't want to get punched in the throat.