So somedays I look in the mirror and see a pretty girl, smiling and grinning, but other days, I see a freak, a freak with too many freckles and their just.... ugly. This really gets me down :( And when I try to make myself look... normal..... people at school tease me for wearing makeup and for being weird...
So do you guys think Im ugly, and please be completely and truly HONEST. I dont want people to lie and say Im pretty, when Im not.
And please comment any suggestions to make me self better, to improve my... face :(
You. Are. Freakin. Gorgeous. You have amazing hair, insanely beautiful eyes, and your freckles are adorable!!!
Oh honey, junior high and high school suck. The big one. I'm 33, and let me tell you, if people didn't pick on you for your freckles they'd just pick on you for something else. I was teased my whole life for being overweight, wearing glasses, being smart, and being weird. And you know what? Eventually, I learned to not care about what those people think. It doesn't matter what they think. Or what I think. It only matters that *you* love *you* for who you are.
And FYI, just because you don't fit the "standard mold" doesn't mean youre not beautiful. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and colors. Even us gingers!!! (I'm a natural ginger myself, freckles and all. I wouldn't dye my hair if I had a red half as nice as yours!!!)
people who don't know what beautiful is or have never seen someone or something so beautiful dont know how to accept it or precieve it will talk about u n make u feel low bc they dont understand something. ur beautiful u u dont need me to tell i. u know u might hate ur looks now bt ur still young give ur body time to finish growing into itself. i had freckles til i was about 4-5 yrs old then as i got older they faded . bt even if urs dnt that just means ur special!!?
You r beautiful! I get really insecure ( sorry if i spelled it wrong) about myself all the time. But in the end i know i have inner and outer beauty. And u do to! :)
Embrace your freckles! They're what makes you unique! Don't try an be like everyone else, be you. Your a very adorable Girl and if someone has a problem with your looks, hair etc an try to point them out then they ones who are insecure are them! Hold your head up honey embrace those adorable Freckles!!!! You would feel much better if you work with your freckles than against them... Try bb creams, very light foundations an just a lill powder...
Omigosh, your eyes ....they're beautiful. And your freckles are so cool and unique! Your hair is so pretty too!
Whoever called you ugly is dead wrong. And I'm not. Even. Kidding. You're gorgeous.
Please, don't think anything different of yourself when somebody tells you that. Stay strong.
If you have a foundation make your own bb cream an mix a small amount of the foundation you used to cover your freckles an mix it with your moisturizer or lotion.. Instant bb cream( tinted moisturizer) mix on the back of your hand an apply with a brush an blend it in the skin very well.. Will lightly cover, an add a beautiful sheen an let those awesome freckles still shine through! :)
An for the record.. Just to perk up your lil day.. You have a haircolor that professional colorists cannot match in a bottle! Natural red hair is that unique! So fix that hair, chin up, an embrace that you have something even professionals cannot replicate!!! Yippppeeee!!!!
Just enhance what you have hun, research the actress Marcia cross.. She lost movie parts for refusing to color her hair... (Same as yours) go online an research makeup an hair tips for natural red heads an women with freckles.. You will be surprised to see that 99% of them never cover their freckles.. You may even find someone to trade products with.. Chin up girly. You have a lot of life yet to live. An some day some you ll laugh at this an say " what was I thinking"!!! :)
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Dec 30, 2012
Tessa S.
So do you guys think Im ugly, and please be completely and truly HONEST. I dont want people to lie and say Im pretty, when Im not.
And please comment any suggestions to make me self better, to improve my... face :(
Thanks for Reading guys.
Dec 30, 2012
Kelly G.
You. Are. Freakin. Gorgeous. You have amazing hair, insanely beautiful eyes, and your freckles are adorable!!!
Oh honey, junior high and high school suck. The big one. I'm 33, and let me tell you, if people didn't pick on you for your freckles they'd just pick on you for something else. I was teased my whole life for being overweight, wearing glasses, being smart, and being weird. And you know what? Eventually, I learned to not care about what those people think. It doesn't matter what they think. Or what I think. It only matters that *you* love *you* for who you are.
And FYI, just because you don't fit the "standard mold" doesn't mean youre not beautiful. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and colors. Even us gingers!!! (I'm a natural ginger myself, freckles and all. I wouldn't dye my hair if I had a red half as nice as yours!!!)
Dec 30, 2012
Jalissa R.
people who don't know what beautiful is or have never seen someone or something so beautiful dont know how to accept it or precieve it will talk about u n make u feel low bc they dont understand something. ur beautiful u u dont need me to tell i. u know u might hate ur looks now bt ur still young give ur body time to finish growing into itself. i had freckles til i was about 4-5 yrs old then as i got older they faded . bt even if urs dnt that just means ur special!!?
Dec 30, 2012
Carrie A.
You r beautiful! I feel that was sometimes and it's not fun. Just be you and do things that make you feel good.
Dec 30, 2012
Carrie A.
*way
Dec 30, 2012
Tessa S.
Thanks everyone <3 Love you all! <3
Dec 30, 2012
Becky S.
So pretty. I'd love to have that hair color and those freckles
Dec 31, 2012
Heather B.
You r beautiful! I get really insecure ( sorry if i spelled it wrong) about myself all the time. But in the end i know i have inner and outer beauty. And u do to! :)
Dec 31, 2012
Alicia M.
Don't listen to what anyone says. Their opinions are irrelevant. I think you're beautiful and I think you should tooo
Dec 31, 2012
Tera C.
You are adorable!! I'm a hair stylist and beauty is my thing and I'd die to look like you!! Rock your individuality !
Dec 31, 2012
Roxane C.
Embrace your freckles! They're what makes you unique! Don't try an be like everyone else, be you. Your a very adorable Girl and if someone has a problem with your looks, hair etc an try to point them out then they ones who are insecure are them! Hold your head up honey embrace those adorable Freckles!!!! You would feel much better if you work with your freckles than against them... Try bb creams, very light foundations an just a lill powder...
Dec 31, 2012
Ellie M.
Omigosh, your eyes ....they're beautiful. And your freckles are so cool and unique! Your hair is so pretty too!
Whoever called you ugly is dead wrong. And I'm not. Even. Kidding. You're gorgeous.
Please, don't think anything different of yourself when somebody tells you that. Stay strong.
Dec 31, 2012
Tessa S.
Thanks guys, I love you all <3 Its really nice to hear, well read, what you guys have to say about me.
And Roxanne, I have ALWAYS wanted to get a BB cream, but I never have enough money, I have the money now, but Im saving up for a phone.
Dec 31, 2012
Roxane C.
If you have a foundation make your own bb cream an mix a small amount of the foundation you used to cover your freckles an mix it with your moisturizer or lotion.. Instant bb cream( tinted moisturizer) mix on the back of your hand an apply with a brush an blend it in the skin very well.. Will lightly cover, an add a beautiful sheen an let those awesome freckles still shine through! :)
Dec 31, 2012
Roxane C.
Use more moisturizer or lotion an just a dab of foundation an mix well.. Try it an then update us with a pic of your adorable face honey!!!!
Jan 01, 2013
Roxane C.
An for the record.. Just to perk up your lil day.. You have a haircolor that professional colorists cannot match in a bottle! Natural red hair is that unique! So fix that hair, chin up, an embrace that you have something even professionals cannot replicate!!! Yippppeeee!!!!
Jan 01, 2013
Roxane C.
Jan 01, 2013
Tessa S.
Wow Roxane, you dont know how much reading all those words mean to me, I will make my own BB cream, fix my hair up and show you guys <3
Jan 01, 2013
Roxane C.
Just enhance what you have hun, research the actress Marcia cross.. She lost movie parts for refusing to color her hair... (Same as yours) go online an research makeup an hair tips for natural red heads an women with freckles.. You will be surprised to see that 99% of them never cover their freckles.. You may even find someone to trade products with.. Chin up girly. You have a lot of life yet to live. An some day some you ll laugh at this an say " what was I thinking"!!! :)
Jan 01, 2013
Tessa S.
My hair actually isnt that red, more brown, but thanks anyways <3
Jan 01, 2013
Tessa S.
<3
Jan 01, 2013
Tessa S.
I really like it <3 So thank you VERY much Roxane :)
Jan 01, 2013
Roxane C.
Anytime! You look adorable! :)
Jan 01, 2013
Tessa S.
Thanks <3 and if you were wondering what I used, I used Clean and Clear moisturizer and Revlon Photoready liquid foundation :)